Knowing how to select a diamond ring for that perfect someone is about more than knowing what the “Four Cs” of diamonds are. It’s about knowing how to select a diamond ring that will perfectly symbolize your love. It’s about knowing how to select a diamond ring that will dazzle the eye and capture their heart. It’s about knowing what they want, and what will make their heart melt.
Feeling the pressure yet? Don’t worry, it’s not as all-or-nothing as it sounds. Here are a few ways to get the job done.
With a Little Help From Their Friends. Employing the furtive help of your beloved’s close friends and family is a great way to learn what styles to look at, what metal colors to choose, and what kinds of cuts your soon-to-be-betrothed prefers. If the proposal is a surprise, be sure to keep the inner circle small, not only to minimize the chance of someone spilling the beans, but also to avoid making it seem like everyone was in on it but her.
Flying Solo. The more intrepid among you may opt to go it alone, relying on your own stealth reconnaissance skills and keen powers of observation to guide you as you peruse the vast selection of engagement rings available. It’s an endearing gesture, to be sure. It’s also the riskiest. Whatever happens, yours was a gesture of love and devotion. But include the gift receipt, just in case.
Choosing the Ring Together. These days, more and more couples are picking out their rings together, including engagement rings, to make sure each person receives exactly the ring they want, with no back-and-forth exchanging. The proposal itself can still be a surprise… just use a placeholder ring until you can make that happy trip to the jewelry store.
No matter which method you choose, remember that you’ve already made the trickier decision — who to spend the rest of your life with. From that perspective, the ring becomes more of a celebration of your future, and less of a major decision in and of itself. Here’s to your happy life together!